Dating Blurb

This two part article provides an insight into this new world of lifestyle parties that are also becoming a place to pick up real dates for the shy ones from both the genders.

The emerging concept of cuddle parties was started by two American psychologists Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski, who banked on the idea of bringing people together to share intimacy, affection, and appropriate touching to off balance a society of individuals who have become touch-and-snuggle deprived… through a party that is essential to have the character of a non-sexual orgy.

The attire that is preferred for such parties is essentially pyjamas and the real motive here is to be comfortable. There are very specific rules that are enforced to assure the party environment is a safe one. Cuddling party sessions last approximately three hours. Although these cuddle parties prove to be mood lifters and effective anti depressants they are not to be substituted for medical therapies.

To begin with, cuddle parties can be defined as an event for adults to get together and explore affectionate touch and communication without it becoming sexualized. In such parties safe and adequate space is created to talk, and explore about various needs as adults on matters of affection, intimacy and welcomed touch and also recognise the power of cuddling.

While coming together for an event such as this might seem a little odd, our need for contact, touch, and affection is proven. Affectionate touch is necessary for healthy immune systems, good mental health, and the development of our brains and nervous systems. It can reduce stress levels and help sick or injured people to heal. Touch is a means of communication with the people around us.