Countering liars while finding a date online
The concept of finding a date online might seem inviting to many but with it comes a hidden demon, called lie. Liars galore over the internet and people lurk around just to fulfill their sexual fantasies. Which makes it all the more important for you to understand people you want to date and check if they are lying before entering into any kind of a relationship.
Online dating is one of the top money making agendas on the internet and hence the users also have to face a lot of hoax, and trust me portals are of little help in finding your perfect someone. So it is up to you to check if your potential date is lying or not. This article brings you tips and checks you can apply to know the real person.
To begin with it is essential to know as to why people lie. The most common reasons are to avoid:
- conflict,
- consequences of their behaviour,
- making changes in existing lifestyle,
- revealing an act or omission,
- rejection,
- losing control over a situation,
- being embarrassed,
- looking unsuccessful or bad or lacking potential talent.
While all these reasons are essentially why people lie over cyberspace let me tell you how to recognise such lies.
Always remember that the rule in cyberspace is that a truthful person will be “congruent.” That means that all the information they give out — their words, body language, they way they live and dress, everything — fits together and contains no contradictions. People who lie will be incongruent in some way or the other.