Dating Blurb

If you have found yourself unlucky in love so many times, and you have been blaming it on the men you have picked, it might be time for you to shift some of the blame where it really belongs - on your shoulders. If you can’t seem to find love, it may not be because men are men - it might just be it is because you are you.

Look a Little Deeper

If you find your love life runs the same pattern over and over, it is probably because of something you are doing or not doing. It is easier for a woman to blame the man rather than look to herself. Sure, you can find lots of immature guys out there just looking for nothing more than a hot body, but all men are not the same. You may want to consider that you might be the immature one with unrealistic expectations.

Look at Me!

Men are not attracted to desperate women. You may want to consider if some of your actions such as emailing, IMing and texting frequently are signaling him that you are ready to plunge into an exclusive relationship after only a few dates, or worse, that you have no life.

How many times have you wanted to bail on a guy because after a few dates he is calling and trying to get in contact with you constantly? Even if you really like someone and think he feels the same way, allow him to make some of the moves instead of bulldozing your way into his life. Be patient and control your impulses.  Let time decide if he is the right one for you.

It is confusing to be told, “Play hard to get, yet be accessible.” Finding the right balance when you meet a prospective suitor can be tough. Your best bet is to take your time, be honest, and be yourself.

Putting on an act is not the way to begin a relationship.