Dating Blurb

Not very long ago, it was only proper that if a man asked a woman out on a date, he was expected to pay the tab for the evening. Things have changed a lot in a short time, and the man isn’t always expected to pay for the date these days. How do you know who is going to pay?

When a Man asks the Woman

Men are hunters by nature and when he asks a woman on a date, that is part of the ritual. If a man likes you, he will often be more than happy to pay for your evening out, especially if he was the one doing the asking. When you accept this courtesy, you are telling the man that you too are interested. You might offer to pay your way out of politeness, and if he refuses you know he is interested in seeing you again. If you insist on paying your own way, you may give him the impression that you are rejecting him.

What if He Asks you for Money?

If when the check comes, your date asks you to chip in for the tab, you can be reasonably sure that he is not all that interested in you. Guys want to impress their crush and paying is one way they try and do that. There are plenty of guys who will come up with a myriad of excuses of why they can’t pay such as they forgot their wallet, they are a little short this week, and this should be a big, waving, red flag for you.

The Obligation Factor

Many women today offer to pay their own way so they don’t feel obligated or indebted to the fellow they are out with. Most women have jobs and make a good living and they don’t want to seem as if they are taking advantage by making the man pay for everything. You can let him pay for the dinner and then treat him to a movie afterwards. Who pays is a big consideration in the dating game, one that your mother probably never had to worry about when she was single.