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How to detect your date is lying -part2

Posted on October 13th, 2007 in Dating Tips - Women, Dating Tips - Men by

Your own inner cues:

Your sixth sense tells you that something is not right. Explanations do not feel enough for you and you feel confused or you find yourself squinting or angling your head. You feel a block or a wall between you and the other and feel that your wavelengths just don’t match.

In Internet dating, or any kind of dating for that matter, keep your anxiety down, your head attached, and listen to everything your date tells you in every way. People tell you about themselves constantly, from the very first second of contact. You just have to be willing to hear it. Not only do they tell you by what they do say, they tell you by what they don’t say.

Many of these cues can come from simple distraction or nervousness, not deceit. New daters have plenty of reasons to be

How to detect your date is lying

Posted on October 10th, 2007 in Dating Tips - Women, Dating Tips - Men by

In order to detect lies here’s what you need to pay attention to: 

1. How they use words, written, on the phone, or in person:

  • Talking faster or slower.
  • Changes in voice pitch.
  • Taking charge of conversation, attempts to distract you.
  • Continual denying of accusations.
  • Unusual voice fluctuations, word choice, sentence structure.
  • Stalling the conversation by repetitive use of pauses and comments like “um” or “you know.”
  • Lack of use of contractions.
  • Prefers emphasizing “not” when talking.
  • Being extremely defensive.
  • Saying “Trust me.”

Cuddle Parties -the concept

Posted on October 4th, 2007 in Dating Tips - Women, Dating Tips - Men by

Practicing welcomed, affectionate touch without sexualizing it can improve relationships of all kinds. Touch is one of the five senses, and as such, it is one of the ways we learn about the world. It feeds and nurtures us. Thus, cuddle parties prove to be an effective way to suit our physical and mental needs for “demonstrative” love and affection.

Cuddle Parties shun the age old ideology that adults above the age of 15 do not need demonstrative affection. They recognise the basic need to be held, hugged, touched, stroked, caressed, piled atop on, reclined across, nuzzled, and affectionately massaged like kids. Cuddle Parties are a place to begin exploring and reclaiming the sense of affectionate touch and play we naturally displayed and enjoyed as children, and that we need to be happy, healthy adults.

However, to prevent these parties from turning into a sexual orgy, the hosts provide the participants with safeguards and

Cuddle Parties -place to find dates for the shy ones

Posted on October 1st, 2007 in Dating Tips - Women, Dating Tips - Men by

This two part article provides an insight into this new world of lifestyle parties that are also becoming a place to pick up real dates for the shy ones from both the genders.

The emerging concept of cuddle parties was started by two American psychologists Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski, who banked on the idea of bringing people together to share intimacy, affection, and appropriate touching to off balance a society of individuals who have become touch-and-snuggle deprived… through a party that is essential to have the character of a non-sexual orgy.

The attire that is preferred for such parties is essentially pyjamas and the real motive here is to be comfortable. There are very specific rules that are enforced to assure the party environment is a safe one. Cuddling party sessions last

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